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October 28, 2013 by Snarksy
Topping from the Bottom is Not Actually a Bad Thing
Part two of this post can be found here. Just to be sure my title is clear, I’ll say it again: Topping from the bottom is not actually a bad thing. There are many in the BDSM world who would tell you that it is, or insist on ways a submissive identified person can be […]
October 18, 2013 by Snarksy
Kinky Harry Potter
Apropos of nothing, and without paying my proper respect to the world of fanfic, I present to you my thoughts from re-watching the first Harry Potter movie with friends tonight: My poly life in Hogsmeade is one in which I use my women’s studies background to teach an intersectional Muggle Studies course up at Hogwarts. I […]
October 3, 2013 by Snarksy
Notes From a Conference
So I just got back Tuesday night from a wonderful trip to San Francisco, where I was able to present at the 6th Annual CARAS conference, hang out with good friends, make new ones, and even oogle sexy queer leather women at Folsom. Total win! CARAS stands for Center to Advance Research on Alternative Sexualities. […]
September 27, 2013 by Snarksy
This Day On A.S.B.
Why, ahoy there. I am starting a new feature, called “This Day on A.S.B.” I realize that for many younger folks (especially under 30) Usenet is a relative unknown. Though many of us have a love/hate relationship with Fetlife, very few of my peers are really familiar with other ways the kink community has communicated […]
September 25, 2013 by Snarksy