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October 3, 2013 by Snarksy

Notes From a Conference

So I just got back Tuesday night from a wonderful trip to San Francisco, where I was able to present at the 6th Annual CARAS conference, hang out with good friends, make new ones, and even oogle sexy queer leather women at Folsom. Total win! CARAS stands for Center to Advance Research on Alternative Sexualities. […]
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September 25, 2013 by Snarksy

Actual Nice Guys

The other night I was hanging out half-naked in my bed and making a bit of the kissy-time with two folks I am fond of—let’s call them Rick & Dana.* Rick is a guy I have been on a few dates with, Dana is a lady I am very good friends with. Recently, I introduced […]
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September 24, 2013 by Snarksy

I’m Presenting at CARAS!

I will be at the 6th Annual Alternative Sexualities Conference this Saturday. The lovely folks at CARAS are letting my present my research on conversations around rape within the BDSM community! If you haven’t seen my Bitch Article, Safe Words, you can get a small taste of my what my research is all about here. I […]
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August 30, 2013 by Snarksy

Kind of a Fucked Up Question, Huh?

I recently went on an overnight hike, on a trail not too far from where I live. I was stopped at one of the designated camp sites, when another hiker came by—in keeping with hiker nick-name culture, we’ll call him Dirty David.* Dirty David and I spent some time talking with each other about our […]
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August 14, 2013 by Snarksy

Sex-Ed and BDSM

Last spring I went to see the musical Spring Awakening with some friends. The actors were from a theater troupe at a local university. They were talented, had clearly worked hard, and I definitely enjoyed the performance in an aesthetic way. But watching Spring Awakening also brought to the surface some questions I’ve been sitting on for […]
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Watch my Kink Academy Video!

My presentation on Narratives of Sexual Assault in the BDSM Community from the CARAS conference last September is now up on Kink Academy! Thanks so much to Princess Kali for recording my workshop, and CARAS for hosting the event.

Click the link above to learn about how our scene has handled rape through time, and where those conversations are today.

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