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November 15, 2013 by Snarksy

Topping From the Bottom Is Not Actually a Bad Thing, Part 2 – In Which We Realize That “Consensual” is the Only Official “Way to Be” in Kink

This post is a continuation of a series on why I hate the idea of “no topping from the bottom”. Catch Part 1 here. A few years ago I remember being at a small house-warming party with friends from what was then my local kink scene. I had decided I was probably not going to […]
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October 28, 2013 by Snarksy

Topping from the Bottom is Not Actually a Bad Thing

Part two of this post can be found here. Just to be sure my title is clear, I’ll say it again: Topping from the bottom is not actually a bad thing. There are many in the BDSM world who would tell you that it is, or insist on ways a submissive identified person can be […]
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September 25, 2013 by Snarksy

Actual Nice Guys

The other night I was hanging out half-naked in my bed and making a bit of the kissy-time with two folks I am fond of—let’s call them Rick & Dana.* Rick is a guy I have been on a few dates with, Dana is a lady I am very good friends with. Recently, I introduced […]
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Watch my Kink Academy Video!

My presentation on Narratives of Sexual Assault in the BDSM Community from the CARAS conference last September is now up on Kink Academy! Thanks so much to Princess Kali for recording my workshop, and CARAS for hosting the event.

Click the link above to learn about how our scene has handled rape through time, and where those conversations are today.

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