November 15, 2013 by Snarksy

Topping From the Bottom Is Not Actually a Bad Thing, Part 2 – In Which We Realize That “Consensual” is the Only Official “Way to Be” in Kink

This post is a continuation of a series on why I hate the idea of “no topping from the bottom”. Catch Part 1 here. A few years ago I remember being at a small house-warming party with friends from what was then my local kink scene. I had decided I was probably not going to […]

October 28, 2013 by Snarksy

Topping from the Bottom is Not Actually a Bad Thing

Part two of this post can be found here. Just to be sure my title is clear, I’ll say it again: Topping from the bottom is not actually a bad thing. There are many in the BDSM world who would tell you that it is, or insist on ways a submissive identified person can be […]