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August 23, 2013 by Snarksy

A Brief History of Kink Online: 1989 – alt.sex.bondage

This post is part of a new series about the history of kink online. In the 1980’s most people—even in affluent communities—didn’t use “the Internet”. By and large, it was a nerd thing, and an academic thing, and a government thing. When kinksters and organizers in early 80s San Francisco pioneered some of the first […]
August 22, 2013 by Snarksy

A Brief History of Kink Online: The Serial

(It’s almost like a Brief History of Time, but way more obscure and a bit less fundamental!) So, if you’ve made it to this blog, there is a decent chance you’ve heard of Fetlife. If you haven’t heard of Fetlife, you certainly are aware of the existence of everyone’s favorite/least-favorite social-networking site, and it’s not-so-utilized […]
August 20, 2013 by Snarksy

Check Me Out At Bitch Magazine

I recently wrote an article about the history of anti-rape activism within the BDSM community. It is being printed in Bitch Magazine this fall, and is currently up on their website. Writing it was a blast, and the editor who worked with me at Bitch was really nice, so I look forward to hopefully writing for […]
August 14, 2013 by Snarksy

Sex-Ed and BDSM

Last spring I went to see the musical Spring Awakening with some friends. The actors were from a theater troupe at a local university. They were talented, had clearly worked hard, and I definitely enjoyed the performance in an aesthetic way. But watching Spring Awakening also brought to the surface some questions I’ve been sitting on for […]
August 14, 2013 by Snarksy

Some More About Snarksy

Ahoy again! I see you have stuck around for post #2, or are perhaps sneaky, and like reading blogs in reverse order, in which case who knows how many posts you have read! In either case – Hello, I am Snarksy. I am a feminist, politically-active, activisty type and have sexual feelings that would probably […]
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Watch my Kink Academy Video!

My presentation on Narratives of Sexual Assault in the BDSM Community from the CARAS conference last September is now up on Kink Academy! Thanks so much to Princess Kali for recording my workshop, and CARAS for hosting the event.

Click the link above to learn about how our scene has handled rape through time, and where those conversations are today.

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